It is true that you can't fix her problem, this situation is complex. I am currently reading and practicing Byron Katie's "The Work" and "Letting Go The Pathway of Surrender" David R. Hawkins, M.D. Ph.D. The more clear and solid you are the better everything can be, whether you stay or go. Both of these authors had life changing spiritua…
It is true that you can't fix her problem, this situation is complex. I am currently reading and practicing Byron Katie's "The Work" and "Letting Go The Pathway of Surrender" David R. Hawkins, M.D. Ph.D. The more clear and solid you are the better everything can be, whether you stay or go. Both of these authors had life changing spiritual experiences and are not woo-woo. First she has to see and recognize the situation for change to occur, I would think, I could be wrong. I was firm with my husband about some patterns that were affecting our relationship and we continue to use these tools and chip away. Do your work to get clear, that usually means not doing the same things that don't work. I wish clarity and strength to you both.
It is true that you can't fix her problem, this situation is complex. I am currently reading and practicing Byron Katie's "The Work" and "Letting Go The Pathway of Surrender" David R. Hawkins, M.D. Ph.D. The more clear and solid you are the better everything can be, whether you stay or go. Both of these authors had life changing spiritual experiences and are not woo-woo. First she has to see and recognize the situation for change to occur, I would think, I could be wrong. I was firm with my husband about some patterns that were affecting our relationship and we continue to use these tools and chip away. Do your work to get clear, that usually means not doing the same things that don't work. I wish clarity and strength to you both.