Yes this is what I have been struggling with since the onset of COvID. My spouse is in healthcare, upper admin, and it has been a strain, at times on our marriage. I can’t tell you how many times we’ve had discussions when he comes home from work that turn into arguments/disagreements. It’s not like I’m looking for a fight but we are jus…
Yes this is what I have been struggling with since the onset of COvID. My spouse is in healthcare, upper admin, and it has been a strain, at times on our marriage. I can’t tell you how many times we’ve had discussions when he comes home from work that turn into arguments/disagreements. It’s not like I’m looking for a fight but we are just discussing things and he’s my husband. It’s a comfortable space to share my worries/concerns/doubts etc…it’s been a process where finally the last disagreement ended with him saying “we just can’t talk about this, we clearly disagree”. We have to do this in order to save our marriage. COvID had destroyed so much but I think we both agree we will not let it tear us apart. He’s in the thick of it and I can’t be the one that will help him realize things are amiss. He will figure it out. I stood my ground on the booster for a while but i got it right before omicron was really coming in hard. I told him the data was what edged me. Hospitals in our areas were flooded with unvaccinated. I weighed my risk but still felt really uneasy about it. As omicron is being more understood, our family discussion involved me saying “no more forced vaccinations for me and any other variants they come up with in the future can go F-themselves.” This has been one emotional bumpy roller coaster ride since it all started.
Sorry to hear that. I'm 31years post heart and lungs transplant and on heavy immunosuppression but luckily saw this shitshow for what it is instantly. Totally unvaccinated totally unafraid.
The hospitals are telling people it is the unvaxxed but they are counting people that are vaxxed as unavaxxed. If you look at the ICD codes you can see how the numbers are getting incorrectly tabulated.
In my Big 10 major University Hospital system, it's over 80% vaxxed inpatient. Complex pts w vax injuries to.....vascular and heart. Cath Lab runneth over... Few unvaxxed and out the door quick w AB intact from illness itself, even months on. Current pts usually COPDers. Transplant floors blocked off from all but their pts. Segregated in every way to keep separate from rest of units. Go and come from different entrances. NO scrubs worn coming or going. All scrubs supplied upon clock-in. Never allowed to wear street into any area that might become an OR quickly. What a mess. Still no staff since most tenured left during mandate's beginnings. They ain't comin' back!
I’m in New England. We finally got our surge starting late August/early September and it peaked right around the holidays. My husband works for a big health system with 9 other hospitals. He’s ceo of one of them. He gets the data every night. They use the data to help them make decisions about staffing, services, visitor policies, supplies etc…
Our state(Live free or die) has a decent percentage of people not getting vaccinated. The system began running the numbers and pushing them out to the public about the ratios of COvID inpatients vaccinated/unvaccinated. Numbers across all hospitals were showing 70% of them were unvaccinated. There were also several younger people who had COVID and died, mostly new moms. I don’t know how they would mess with these numbers or why? I would like to know the age breakdown. I would also like to know if they were also sick for other reasons. I do believe the vaccine may help some individuals but not without some risk. I strongly believe it should be a choice. We need to get to a place where our docs are being honest with us about those risks, being able to honestly discuss the pros and cons. At the height of the surge here there was a huge push by most docs and some nurses to get vaccinated. They were seeing so much sickness. I think many of them feel helpless in being able to help and they are grabbing at straws(the vaccine) thinking it will save the day.
And yet, here am I as a retired bank VP, and I knew about HCQ & IVM since March 2020!
I had the great good fortune to discover Dr. Paul Marik in April 2020, and his fledgling alliance, the FLCCC.
I have taken responsíbility for my unvaccinated health with therapeutics on hand if needed, while I watched 3 friends die of Delta, and whose families would not call for local docs experienced in these therapeutic protocols.
My own dear doctor went over to the dark side, and after 10 years, I no longer trust her. 😢
That’s great for you! I’ve heard others who have come across doctors who are willing to not go to the dark side and try other things. I’m surrounded by docs, nurses and some are friends(before COVID) who went to the dark side. I saw it the whole time. I have felt like if I say anything I’m being political, a maga, an anti vaccer. I’ve had to bite my tongue so much these last two years. I just want to move to Florida and find new associations and friends.
Yes this is what I have been struggling with since the onset of COvID. My spouse is in healthcare, upper admin, and it has been a strain, at times on our marriage. I can’t tell you how many times we’ve had discussions when he comes home from work that turn into arguments/disagreements. It’s not like I’m looking for a fight but we are just discussing things and he’s my husband. It’s a comfortable space to share my worries/concerns/doubts etc…it’s been a process where finally the last disagreement ended with him saying “we just can’t talk about this, we clearly disagree”. We have to do this in order to save our marriage. COvID had destroyed so much but I think we both agree we will not let it tear us apart. He’s in the thick of it and I can’t be the one that will help him realize things are amiss. He will figure it out. I stood my ground on the booster for a while but i got it right before omicron was really coming in hard. I told him the data was what edged me. Hospitals in our areas were flooded with unvaccinated. I weighed my risk but still felt really uneasy about it. As omicron is being more understood, our family discussion involved me saying “no more forced vaccinations for me and any other variants they come up with in the future can go F-themselves.” This has been one emotional bumpy roller coaster ride since it all started.
Sorry to hear that. I'm 31years post heart and lungs transplant and on heavy immunosuppression but luckily saw this shitshow for what it is instantly. Totally unvaccinated totally unafraid.
Video if you wanna check! https://rumble.com/vs1io5-celebrating-my-30th-anniversary-of-my-heart-and-lung-transplant.html
The hospitals are telling people it is the unvaxxed but they are counting people that are vaxxed as unavaxxed. If you look at the ICD codes you can see how the numbers are getting incorrectly tabulated.
In my Big 10 major University Hospital system, it's over 80% vaxxed inpatient. Complex pts w vax injuries to.....vascular and heart. Cath Lab runneth over... Few unvaxxed and out the door quick w AB intact from illness itself, even months on. Current pts usually COPDers. Transplant floors blocked off from all but their pts. Segregated in every way to keep separate from rest of units. Go and come from different entrances. NO scrubs worn coming or going. All scrubs supplied upon clock-in. Never allowed to wear street into any area that might become an OR quickly. What a mess. Still no staff since most tenured left during mandate's beginnings. They ain't comin' back!
I’m in New England. We finally got our surge starting late August/early September and it peaked right around the holidays. My husband works for a big health system with 9 other hospitals. He’s ceo of one of them. He gets the data every night. They use the data to help them make decisions about staffing, services, visitor policies, supplies etc…
Our state(Live free or die) has a decent percentage of people not getting vaccinated. The system began running the numbers and pushing them out to the public about the ratios of COvID inpatients vaccinated/unvaccinated. Numbers across all hospitals were showing 70% of them were unvaccinated. There were also several younger people who had COVID and died, mostly new moms. I don’t know how they would mess with these numbers or why? I would like to know the age breakdown. I would also like to know if they were also sick for other reasons. I do believe the vaccine may help some individuals but not without some risk. I strongly believe it should be a choice. We need to get to a place where our docs are being honest with us about those risks, being able to honestly discuss the pros and cons. At the height of the surge here there was a huge push by most docs and some nurses to get vaccinated. They were seeing so much sickness. I think many of them feel helpless in being able to help and they are grabbing at straws(the vaccine) thinking it will save the day.
And yet, here am I as a retired bank VP, and I knew about HCQ & IVM since March 2020!
I had the great good fortune to discover Dr. Paul Marik in April 2020, and his fledgling alliance, the FLCCC.
I have taken responsíbility for my unvaccinated health with therapeutics on hand if needed, while I watched 3 friends die of Delta, and whose families would not call for local docs experienced in these therapeutic protocols.
My own dear doctor went over to the dark side, and after 10 years, I no longer trust her. 😢
That’s great for you! I’ve heard others who have come across doctors who are willing to not go to the dark side and try other things. I’m surrounded by docs, nurses and some are friends(before COVID) who went to the dark side. I saw it the whole time. I have felt like if I say anything I’m being political, a maga, an anti vaccer. I’ve had to bite my tongue so much these last two years. I just want to move to Florida and find new associations and friends.