Over time I’ve gotten to know many of you. Listening and learning about your life’s stories. How the events in life make us who we are. Realizing this makes it clear that we should never be rigid, hard or judgmental with people. It makes me realize I should try my best to look at people through their eyes, and not make snap judgements on…
Over time I’ve gotten to know many of you. Listening and learning about your life’s stories. How the events in life make us who we are. Realizing this makes it clear that we should never be rigid, hard or judgmental with people. It makes me realize I should try my best to look at people through their eyes, and not make snap judgements on people. You never know what people have been through. We can either see people with eyes of judgement or we can see them with eyes of mercy, eyes of compassion. The way we see other people is the way they will see you. Too often we judge people based on our own background, we are all different. We all have strengths and we all have weaknesses. Instead of showing judgement on people, without walking in their shoes, maybe we should try showing mercy, I struggle and try to learn patience with this.
There was a farmer whose dog had some puppies. He put a sign on the fence in front of his farm “puppies for sale”. The little boy from across the street came over, he was about 8 years old. He said mister I want to buy one of your puppies. The little boy pulled out a pocket full of change and said I have 39 cents is that enough. The farmer kind of laughed and counted each of the coins and said that’s exactly enough. The farmer called a worker in the barn to let the puppies out. 4 of the cutest little puppies come running towards the boy. He reached down to play with them trying to decide which one to buy. Just then another puppy slid down the ramp of the cage the other puppies had run down. There was something wrong with this puppies back legs. When it ran all he could do is hobble along. The little boy was immediately drawn to it. Without hesitation he said that’s the puppy I want. The farmer was puzzled and said no son you don’t want this puppy there’s something wrong with his back legs, he won’t be able to run and play with the other children. The little boy reached down and began to roll up his blue jeans. When he did it revealed steel braces on each side of the boys legs with two specially made shoes. He said to the farmer, you see I don’t run so well either. This puppy is going to need someone who understands.
This world is full of people that need someone that understands. We don’t know what people have gone through. We don’t know the hurt or the pain that they’ve had to endure. Many, If we took the time to know their story, would give us a different perspective, we may not be so critical. If you would first walk in their shoes you would find out why they are the way they are. Sometimes we need to stop, take a deep breath, and remember not everyone is the same. Sometimes I need to show more patience and more compassion. J.Goodrich
James, your writing and stories are superlative. Your humanity and compassion are extraordinary. Thank you for sharing with us all and reminding us we are all a family.
Though I subscribe to other substacks & learn a great deal from them, & also enjoy reading the comment sections & occasionally contributing a comment of my own, what I have found here is unlike any of the others. Here, there seems to be a genuine caring about the physical, mental, & emotional well-being of others well beyond this comment section. Perhaps I am reading too much into the experience, but I can honestly say that the plights & burdens of others as well as their triumphs, successes, & experiences, when they care to share them, truly seem to matter to those sharing this space. Just one more thing to be grateful for. Happy Spring, everyone!
Debra, I have felt the same thing. This Substack is the absolute best. Drs Malones lead but the participants are just all amazingly wonderful people that have so much to share.
I agree, Debra. This group is the only “social media” outlet I follow, & also enjoy adding “my own few-cents worth”. I have never had any negative feedback, & that helps me so much! There is so much to chat about, & the content seems to vary every day! Have a wonderful evening!
Thank You Big E. I’ve been driving so I haven’t had a chance to respond. The story of Teddy and Ms. Thompson as you probably know has been around for a long time. Sometimes with our lives going by so fast we have to take a minute to look back and see how wonderful these stories are. I struggle with all of these issues I write about. I’m a work in progress and when I see a story like this one I love sharing it with all of you , I know it will hit home. Thank You Big E!!
Thank you James. Your words today, are especially geared to me. I have been very shy, well over 80 years, and was never "brave" enough to smile or acknowledge strangers.
Until a year ago, when a new friend showed me how it's done. You simply smile...or nod, and then, YOU SEE! And, if there's no response, never fret. Many smiles to go, with no
Your thoughts & beautiful stories are very comforting, & bring so much to this wonderful group, & I for one, really enjoy each one. Sometimes it’s difficult for me occasionally, & your truthful words bring so much meaning & a voice of reason. Thank you!
Over time I’ve gotten to know many of you. Listening and learning about your life’s stories. How the events in life make us who we are. Realizing this makes it clear that we should never be rigid, hard or judgmental with people. It makes me realize I should try my best to look at people through their eyes, and not make snap judgements on people. You never know what people have been through. We can either see people with eyes of judgement or we can see them with eyes of mercy, eyes of compassion. The way we see other people is the way they will see you. Too often we judge people based on our own background, we are all different. We all have strengths and we all have weaknesses. Instead of showing judgement on people, without walking in their shoes, maybe we should try showing mercy, I struggle and try to learn patience with this.
There was a farmer whose dog had some puppies. He put a sign on the fence in front of his farm “puppies for sale”. The little boy from across the street came over, he was about 8 years old. He said mister I want to buy one of your puppies. The little boy pulled out a pocket full of change and said I have 39 cents is that enough. The farmer kind of laughed and counted each of the coins and said that’s exactly enough. The farmer called a worker in the barn to let the puppies out. 4 of the cutest little puppies come running towards the boy. He reached down to play with them trying to decide which one to buy. Just then another puppy slid down the ramp of the cage the other puppies had run down. There was something wrong with this puppies back legs. When it ran all he could do is hobble along. The little boy was immediately drawn to it. Without hesitation he said that’s the puppy I want. The farmer was puzzled and said no son you don’t want this puppy there’s something wrong with his back legs, he won’t be able to run and play with the other children. The little boy reached down and began to roll up his blue jeans. When he did it revealed steel braces on each side of the boys legs with two specially made shoes. He said to the farmer, you see I don’t run so well either. This puppy is going to need someone who understands.
This world is full of people that need someone that understands. We don’t know what people have gone through. We don’t know the hurt or the pain that they’ve had to endure. Many, If we took the time to know their story, would give us a different perspective, we may not be so critical. If you would first walk in their shoes you would find out why they are the way they are. Sometimes we need to stop, take a deep breath, and remember not everyone is the same. Sometimes I need to show more patience and more compassion. J.Goodrich
James, your writing and stories are superlative. Your humanity and compassion are extraordinary. Thank you for sharing with us all and reminding us we are all a family.
Though I subscribe to other substacks & learn a great deal from them, & also enjoy reading the comment sections & occasionally contributing a comment of my own, what I have found here is unlike any of the others. Here, there seems to be a genuine caring about the physical, mental, & emotional well-being of others well beyond this comment section. Perhaps I am reading too much into the experience, but I can honestly say that the plights & burdens of others as well as their triumphs, successes, & experiences, when they care to share them, truly seem to matter to those sharing this space. Just one more thing to be grateful for. Happy Spring, everyone!
Debra, I have felt the same thing. This Substack is the absolute best. Drs Malones lead but the participants are just all amazingly wonderful people that have so much to share.
I agree, Debra. This group is the only “social media” outlet I follow, & also enjoy adding “my own few-cents worth”. I have never had any negative feedback, & that helps me so much! There is so much to chat about, & the content seems to vary every day! Have a wonderful evening!
Thanks, Patricia. I hope you have a lovely evening too.
Thank You Big E. I’ve been driving so I haven’t had a chance to respond. The story of Teddy and Ms. Thompson as you probably know has been around for a long time. Sometimes with our lives going by so fast we have to take a minute to look back and see how wonderful these stories are. I struggle with all of these issues I write about. I’m a work in progress and when I see a story like this one I love sharing it with all of you , I know it will hit home. Thank You Big E!!
Thank you James. Your words today, are especially geared to me. I have been very shy, well over 80 years, and was never "brave" enough to smile or acknowledge strangers.
Until a year ago, when a new friend showed me how it's done. You simply smile...or nod, and then, YOU SEE! And, if there's no response, never fret. Many smiles to go, with no
end in sight.
Happy Sunday.
Barbara
Awesome RADIODAZY, you made my day!!
A very good reminder that I certainly needed, my friend, James.
Thank You Jennifer!
Another heart warming story. Thank you!
Your thoughts & beautiful stories are very comforting, & bring so much to this wonderful group, & I for one, really enjoy each one. Sometimes it’s difficult for me occasionally, & your truthful words bring so much meaning & a voice of reason. Thank you!
Thank you Patricia!!
You are welcome! Now, start writing a book about life- you really should!
Bravo!!!!❣️